The First Lady: Mary Todd Lincoln’s Life and Experiences Throughout the Civil War
Brianne Abrams
History 10
May 29, 2015
Brianne Abrams Block A
History 10 May 29, 2015
The First Lady: Mary Todd Lincoln’s Life and Experiences Throughout the Civil War
Part One: An introduction to the Most Controversial First Lady of the United States
As many idolize the actions of a president they also overlook the impact of a first lady. Before starting my research I barely knew anything about the first lady of the sixteenth president Abraham Lincoln. In fact I did not even know her name. On the other hand I could list several accomplishment of Abraham Lincoln, and in order to be as successful as Lincoln was I knew that he had to of had someone beside him throughout his journey who was as supportive and caring as Mrs. Lincoln was. I knew that I wanted to focus on a women’s contributions to the war for my research paper and I thought who better to choose than the first lady herself. Mrs. Lincoln had a very important role as a women during the civil war. As many women did not have a significant amount of say in society, but she was able to influence the decision of the President and stand as a voice for a women in the United States. My choosing of Mary Lincoln was fitting and appropriate for this assignment because our main focus of our current curriculum in History is the American Civil War. With so many different aspects I could have focussed on with Mary Lincoln I chose to get an overall better understanding as her life as a whole, and her impact on the Civil War. So, who was Mary Lincoln, and how did she contribute to the war?
Part Two: Searching For Answers
To start off my research I simply went to google and typed in Mrs. Lincoln. Within seconds I had many resources within my finger tips. However even though this was convenient it created much confusion. I had no idea where to start my research or how to tell the reliable sources from the unreliable. So I decided to start my research with a site that I was familiar with and is well known. I did a quick run through of the article making sure it had useful information on my topic. Then after coming to the conclusion that it was scholarly I created a bibliography, and started the note taking process. I repeated this throughout my research. One source that I found to be extremely helpful throughout my research was the book Mrs. Lincoln. At first I was hesitant to the idea of finding books when I am so accustomed to using the web, but it turned out to have a significant role in my final research. I found it convenient to make a spreadsheet in google docs which allowed me to develop clear and neat notes. Finding important notes was going smoothly until I frequently came to the realization that many articles began with the main focus on Mrs. Lincoln, and then shifted into the views and accomplishments of Abraham Lincoln. I started to back track my research and take it from the beginning in order to get rid of, and weed out all of the unnecessary information on President Lincoln. Another struggle I came about during my research process was the conflicting information about Mrs. Lincoln. Some articles would go into detail about how positive Mrs. Lincoln was and how supportive she was of her husband. In contrast to those viewpoints many other sources would point out how negative Mrs. Lincoln was. Then I realized that a person is capable of having both positive and negative actions and effects on people, so I decided to focus on both the positive and negative that Mrs. Lincoln had to offer.
Part Three: A Women With Importance
On the thirteenth of December in 1818, no one knew that the child born to Elizabeth Parker and Robert Smith Todd would become the first lady of the United States during one of if not, the biggest events in American history. Mary grew up in Lexington, Kentucky where her and her sister, later on known as, Elizabeth Edwards were raised to be proper southern ladies. Mary’s mother Elizabeth died when Mary was only six years old leaving Betsey Humphreys as Mary’s motherly figure. Betsey had children of her own leaving Mary with not as much attention as she was used to. Mary had a hard time accepting Betsey into her life and on many occasions they did not get along. Betsey had a strict way of bringing up her children and Mary and her sister were not used to this. Mary was used to asking for something and almost always getting what she wanted. Due to the fact that Mary and Betsey did not get along Mary moved out of her father’s house at a young age, and moved in with her sister Elizabeth and brother in law Ninian Edwards in Springfield Illinois where she would meet her beloved Abraham Lincoln.
Mary and Lincoln were an unexpected couple. Lincoln came from nothing while Mary came from a successful, wealthy family. They quickly fell in love with each other’s sense of humor, interest in politics, and ambition. Mary was eager to get married. Lincoln called off the first proposal, but then reconsidered his decision to marry Mary, and they later got married in the living room of Elizabeth and Ninian Edwards. Mary was a big help alongside Lincoln during his years of hard work trying to become president.
Politics were big in the Todd family and Mary was more than willing to carry on the tradition. Mary held her husband’s career close to her heart and would make sure his reputation was a good one. She would constantly be updating her husband wardrobe and making sure his appearance met the high standards to impress those around him. Mary would attend press conferences and comment to the press about her husband’s policies. Making sure he was always having his name and opinions expressed.
When Lincoln became president many Americans were sceptical about Mary and her intentions. She spent her first months living in the white house spending all of the renovation money that was meant to last over Lincoln’s whole presidential term on redecorating. Her lavish spending influenced many to believe that she was incapable of standing by her husband and make rational decisions for the United States. When the war began it made citizens even more worried.
The south looked at Mary as a traitor because she was supposed to be opposed to the abolishment of slavery. Mary knew how much the south depended on slaves to uphold their economy, and the south expected Mary to stand as a voice for them during the war when in fact she did the exact opposite. Mary was more eager to end slavery than President Lincoln was himself. She was extremely impatient, and her beliefs would play a huge role in Lincoln’s decision making process. Lincoln and Mary also shared the same desire to keep the Union together and not allow the South to succeed.
The North also did not find Mrs. Lincoln to impact the country in a positive way. Her actions toward the union went unnoticed for the most part. Mary showed her passion for the North by aiding the sick and wounded in the war. She also took in troops and allowed them to stay in the East Room of the White house. Mary also showed her support to the Union by refusing to leave the White House when D.C. was threatened to undergo an attack. Mary repetitively showed her loyalty to those in the North, but many of them continued to believe that since Mary was from the South and had southern views that she was a spy.
Mary’s life took a turn for the worst on April 15th, 1865 when he husband and president of the United States was assassinated at Ford’s Theatre. The couple and their youngest son Thomas Lincoln were all enjoying a night out while watching a British comedy. Mrs. Lincoln was sitting right behind her husband when he was shot from behind and struck the ground. Mary pleaded a doctor that was at the theatre to keep her husband alive, but he knew that it was just a matter of time before Lincoln took his last breathes. The doctor brought Lincoln to the Petersen’s which was house near by. Their he was able to attempt to save the President’s life, but their was not much he could do. Mary was asked to leave the room where her husband was being examined by the doctors because her loud shrieks prevented them from being able to focus. Even after she left the room her screams were still heard from down the hall.
After Lincoln died Mary stayed in severe depression making those around her worried about her health. Mary wrote letters expressing her pain due to the loss of her husband. One letter stated “I mourn over that of my worshiped husband, in whose devoted love, I was so blessed, and from whom I was so cruelly torn?” Her son Robert Lincoln had her tried and convicted Mary in court of insanity for attempting suicide multiple times. Mary was in disbelief that her own son could betray her, and have her committed to Bellevue Insane Asylum, in Batavia, Illinois. After going to trial again Myra Bradwell was able to prove that Mary was being held against her will resulting in Mary’s release from the asylum into the care of her sister Elizabeth. Mary died July 16th, 1882 of a stroke. She was buried alongside her husband and children in the Lincoln Tomb at the Oak Ridge Cemetery in Springfield Illinois.
Part Four: A Learning Experience
Throughout my research I learned that it is important to take clear and well thought out notes while completing my outline. I was able to have a better understanding of my topic by getting a significant amount of information. Due to the excessive note taking I was able to produce an essay that covered all aspect of my topic while still maintaining a central focus. Another skill I learned while completing my research was perseverance. There were many times where I struggles to find information I needed through reliable sources, but with enough focus, commitment, and time I soon found what I needed to move along in my research. I will definitely use that perseverance in the future when I come along a challenging obstacle. If I were to do another I-search paper again I would manage my time better. These essays require a lot of time and energy, so I feel as though I should have spread the work out over a week. I really enjoyed writing this essay because we were able to pick a topic of our choosing and incorporate our own opinions into the essay.
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